The Case for Saying Hi
Hello Heathens,
I apologize for running an old show last week, but my travels for work kept me busier at this conference than anticipated. In my younger years, I was less inclined to engage in social settings. Although I wouldn’t classify myself as an introvert, I generally kept to myself in professional environments. This trip was an opportunity to see how much I’ve grown and why I believe it’s important to put yourself out there more in social settings.
The conference I attended comprised data research professionals, including financial analysts, business development researchers, data scientists, data engineers, data governance managers - all with the most fascinating and cool job titles you could imagine. The panels were informative, and the people I met were outstanding! The majority were outgoing, sociable, and eager to connect with peers. However, most were only willing to reciprocate engagement once initiated. The number of connections I made just by being the first to say “Hi” was astounding.
Being quite new to the field, it was exciting to engage in conversation with people in their 50s who have dedicated over 30 years to this profession. Although striking up conversation with strangers might not be everyone’s preferred way to spend a conference, the experience was more enjoyable because I ventured out of my comfort zone. The fear of offending someone or being misinterpreted can discourage us from interacting with strangers. But if you disregard those fears, say hello, and be yourself, you’ll find that many people are open to conversation.
Putting yourself out there to forge new connections might not be comfortable, nor something you’ll receive a pay raise for, but without taking that step, your social circle will inevitably dwindle. Numerous news articles highlight the unique era of loneliness we’re currently living in. From my perspective, this sense of isolation seems largely self-inflicted, fueled by fear of engaging with neighbors, fellow conference attendees, or colleagues. Don’t be afraid to take the first step, be the one to say “Hi”. If you don’t initiate engagement with others, you risk falling into a vicious cycle of loneliness and being overshadowed by your more sociable peers.
Keep Heavy the Sabbath Day